Most of us were raised to become ordinary.
Extraordinary is something very very different. This is about recognizing within yourself that there's something very very extraordinary that you haven't been trained to believe in. To come to a place where you can apply it and put it into your life. But more than that you can go way beyond ordinary. You can go way beyond just being average.
Being attracted to greatness it's because greatness is all issues, but it's easier to watch greatness, it's easier to go see greatness, because you need to put in the time, to put in the energy, to discipline yourself, to sacrifice yourself.
And so that's why you are a virgin, so frustrated because you're not living like you should live. You don't have what you should have. You're not being who you should be and so that's why you don't want to wake up in the morning.
If you would like to accomplish something, you must first expect it of yourself and my question to you is what do you expect of yourself?
You expect to be able to perform miracles to attract into your life the kind of prosperity that you are entitled to do. You expect that you can manifest the kind of relationships that you would like. You must change what's possible for you.
You'll change the world. Let that thinking, you will change the world, because every single one of you have greatness inside of you. Every single one of you will be so special to this world.
I want to give you a short message to tell you that, you get in the bottom of the stairs and it's literally up to you to walk up those stairs and saw the world you'll get.
I don't care if you working at a McDonald's. I don't care if you're a garbage man. I don't care if you have a college education or a high school education. When you get all those people telling you that you're nothing, you'll never amount to nothing, even family, just keep grinding and driving because if you stop, they can say: "hey I told you".
Every time you walk in, know that you're special, know that you move up to this world. I don't care what you started.
I'll be one great American. I choose not to be a common man. It's my right to be uncommon if I can. I think opportunity not security. I do not wish to be accepted and humbled and all by having the state look out to me. I want to take the calculated risk to dream as the ability to failure to succeed. I refuse to live from hand to mouth. I prefer the challenges of life to that guaranteed existence, the thrill of fulfillment to the field calm of utopia. I will never cower before a master no end to anybody. It's my right to stand erect child in unafraid to face the world boldly and say: "No matter how bad it is or how bad it get, I will make it".
There's nothing as powerful as a changed mind. You can change your hair, your clothing, your address, your spouse, your church, your residence, but if you don't change your mind, the same experience will perpetuate itself over and over again. Because everything outwardly changed but nothing inwardly change.
There is nothing as powerful as a change mind.
Do you know what the real prison is? It is not surrounded by barbed wire or electrical senses, The real prisons do not have guards. The real prison is up here. We all got it. We all have a mind chatter. So often we'll stop chattering.
You are the reason you're not winning. You keep messing with negative evil and dysfunctional people and expecting positive results.
How easy and how convenient is it for us to blame everything and everybody for the things that we have gone on in our lives. There is a such thing as you being a positive and a great person with the best of intentions towards everybody. And shit is rough and you just can't get a break. But most of you, most of you, are waking up every day, looking for pain, dysfunction, drama, unemployment, being broke, struggling, dropping every excuse in the book, about your childhood and the problem with dysfunction that you grew up in, that's stopping you from becoming successful.
You don't like your friends? So why are you still fucking with them?
You don't trust your managers, agents and lawyers? So why are they still there.
Do you really expect your life and career to be any different, from messing with the same things, people and situations.
Because if you're going to blame people for all the shit, you better blame them for all the good. If you're going to give them credit for everything is fucked up, so you have to give them credit for everything that's great.
I'm not asking you to stop blaming, blame elegantly, blame intelligently, blame effectively, balme at the level of your soul not the level of you're fuckin head.
Because life is not so simple as black and white.
If you are about to dump out all your jealousy, all pettiness, all unforgiveness, all strike, all malice, all confusion, all blaming other people for your mistake, you got till midnight to get rid of every poison, that's angering you.
Every inflexibility that's stopping you from what God is about to pour into your life, won't be on to you, if you go into another year and waste another year, with the old old mentality, while somebody's in the hospital begging God for the opportunity that you have right now.
You better step into this moment.
You have to fix the mind, before you can bestow the blessing, because until you get your mind right, everything you invest in them is going to leak out of the crevices of a mind that refuses to change.
I will rejoice and be glad. I will rejoice, I as an act of my will, I've decided, I'll rejoice. I've made up my mind. I'm gonna be happy. I made up my mind I'm going to enjoy. I am as healthier as I'm gonna be and I'm younger as I'm never going to be. I can't get any younger. I can't roll the clock back.
What I got left I'm going to maximize this. I will rejoice.
If you could live forever, would you?
The way I look at it is, it is the knowledge that I'm going to die, that creates the focus that I bring to being alive. The urgency of accomplishment, the need to express love now, not later.
If we live forever why ever even get out of bed, because you always have tomorrow.
That's not the kind of life I want to live.
What is sticking out here, is not the clock, it's your life. It is not the clock ticking away, it is your life ticking away.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by Dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others opinions round out your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know, what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
But why don't you fear, I'm being around?
I fear living a life, where I could have accomplished something and didn't. That's what I fear.
The important thing is, what's the purpose of your life? Why are you here?
We got to look at what makes you really do what you do. Everything on earth has a purpose and you do too. That purpose provides an inner drive, that once you tap into it, can give your life immense fulfillment. It'll also give you certainty.
You need to find something that's eternal inside of yourself, that no matter what changes on the surface, this part of you does not change. It's the part you come back to it. The part that guides you, the part that really makes you fulfilled.
All of us in life have to have a reason to be here. If all you're doing out there, is going out and trying to achieve goals and then you achieve them and I'm sure you've run into that trip up wire that says okay, I have achieved the goal and now what? Right!
You achieve the goal on your brain, since is this all there is. See, the purpose of the goal I've shared with you so many times, is not to achieve the goal. The purpose of the goal is what it make of us as people. Who we become.
Ultimately with all, we have to have a sense, that who we ,become has some kind of meaning. Without that, there's not a reason to live. There is not a reason to get up. There's not a reason to go out there and make it happen.
The life is meant to be a happy moment, a joy to appreciate the little things as opposed of the big things. Appreciate one another. To be givers, to be lovers of life.
I'd say to you that, if you're driven by anything rather than love, your spirits and your desire, to contribute, desire to grow and expand, if you're driven by the need to please others, you're driven by your fear, driven by your past, maybe it's time to free yourself. And the way to do, it's to decide consciously, what you want your life to be about.
Decide consciously, what is the purpose of your life, something simple, something you can live every single day.
Remembering, that you are going to die, is the best way I know, to avoid the trap of thinking, you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
There's no losing, only learning. There's no failure, only opportunity and there's no problem only solution.
So to me what failure is, failure is the mother of all success.
You cannot achieve success, without failure. Some of my biggest successes came from some of my biggest failures. Because failure, is an experience that lends to wisdom, that ultimately makes you a stronger version of yourself.
Right? Right now you want to play basketball, that's not the cards for you. But you know what you discovered? How to be committed, how to be disciplined, how to deny yourself so that you can move forward in the direction of your dreams.
You won in that regard. The failure is just a signpost that you're going in the wrong direction.
So once you learn how to fall, learn how to fall, you realize that the only thing, bad about falling, is the ego. The ego will trick you, into thinking, there is something wrong with falling. No, you can't have up, without down. Right?
When you fall, you now have a chance to rise. So without falling there would be no rise, without the darkness you would not be able to see the stars.
Now I'm not gonna lie to you, it's gonna be a lot of times, all about the fail. I'm still failing every day. We are all a working process. And one day, you'll be sitting in the dark, like I was. You want be asking yourself what am I going to do now? Within that moment I want you to remember of the power of you.
Man, if you knew how good you are. If you knew how good you are. You are good. I'm here to tell, some of you, never heard it. You are good. Each and every one of you winning.
This is the best news you've ever heard in your life. Because once you understand that you are good, you act accordingly.
Listen, life's about falling down and getting up. Doesn't matter how many times you get knocked down, it's about getting back up.
So if there are any kids out there, that's told by a parent, or a coach, or a teacher, or somebody that they look up to, somebody that's supposed to push them and believe in them, and they're told no. Don't listen to them. Believe in yourself.
Sometimes the outcome, isn't always what you desire it to be, but the true failure in life, is not trying at all.
Most people are not willing to get on that journey, because they're afraid to fail. You, my friend have failed. Congratu-fucking-lations! The greatest thing that ever happens to you. Because it shows that you're alive. It shows that you did something and it shows that you're growing stronger. Now go and fucking fail again.
Boy! I hope, I hope you guys are watching these videos that you are going to fail a thousand fucking times. Keep going out there and failing. You know what that means? Every time you fail, it means to me, it tells me, that you're doing something. Go out there and fucking fail. It's the greatest joy in life, because it says so much about your character and it adds so much to who you're becoming.
But we live in a culture made age everybody wants something for nothing. You're supposed to fail. You're supposed to fucking fail because, failure is the stepping stone to success it's not just cliche.
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Make your Declaration
Everyday repeat your purpose in life and the monthly income that you want to achieve to live your dream life .
Make your Plan
Everyday go over your plan of actions to achieve your dream life .
Acknowledge your Success
Everyday list the successes you have achieved.
Appreciate and say Thank you
Everyday list the people and things you are grateful in your life.
Make your exercises
Everyday do your visual, auditory, kinesthetic and spirit exercises to be fit in your life.