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Many things can contribute to us not approving our dreams, not feeling good enough. A lot of things can contribute to that.
Many of us never live up to our potential or don't approve ourselves because we never had anybody to believe in us.
Looking at some of the things that keep us from approving ourselves that we've all done some things we don't feel good about, things that, if we have to do those things over again, we would not do those things or we would do things differently. So part of what we must do in order to begin to move into your greatness, you got to remove a major energy block and that is dealing with the issue of forgiveness.
People that have hurt you, someone who's done you wrong. Make a list and things that you have done that you you feel bad about, that you regret. Make a list.
There may be a time when you weren't a good father, a good mother, a good brother or sister or you you were a bad shallow, you didn't do a good job or you lied or you were dishonest so you stole. No one knows this with you or something you feel good about so you know is a real dog in me to do that something you just really regret.
So we make a list of all those things. All of us have some of that might say there's some good in the worst of us and some bad in the best of us so none of us escape
Now here's something I want you to do: I want you to become involved in an active process to get some clutter out of your life. So if there's any area in your life that you need to clean up, there's some people who's cluttering up your life, they serve no purpose whatsoever. They're just holding and occupying the space that somebody useful, positive, nurturing and contributing could be holding that space.
You don't even have time to look to see what else is out there because you have all of these people surrounding you that's not in enabling you to grow.
So look at what is that I need to get out of my life. Just start cleaning this stuff out.
See whatever you have in your environment, is a reflection of your consciousness. So you got all that chaos there, that represents some disorganised cluttered section of your mind. So let's get all this out of there, all right.
Work to get that out. Clean that up. Anybody that you feel very strongly about have some negative feelings about. Let's look at some good reasons to forgive them.
- You must try and see what has happened or see things from that other person's point of view. Let's look at it, from their point of view. That's one area.
- Holding a grudge hurts you it, doesn't hurt them so just for good health and peace of mind let it go. Any feeling of resentment or anger or hatred is called to me the load of bitterness within. Every thought that we entertain produces a chemical in our brain that impacts the body's immune system and besides this person you are hating it, probably he's not even aware of it, don't even know you're really hating.
If you've turned up the steam gone from this life, to hate intensely and here you are killing yourself, making yourself vulnerable to various types of illnesses, putting yourself in bad health and I say that person is not worth your sacrificing your health or one minute of peace of mind,one minute of anger robs you off 60 seconds of happiness.
So decide it doesn't matter, let it go and experience the dignity and the magnanimous sense of character of being big enough to move on and get on with your life. Letting it go so you can grow.
See we all of us have greatness within us but when you don't come to grips with your greatness and you don't work to develop it, if you're not seeking it out, if you're not finding where it is, if you're not trying to locate it, if you're not experimenting with your life to try and find out what spits for you, I'm saying that you're positioning yourself to be a miserable person, an unfulfilled person.
How else do we do it?
We just put things off, over and over and over again. Why? Because we haven't accepted it. We don't feel deserving, we don't feel that we are good enough, so we sabotage ourselves by not ever taking care of business.
We get real busy doing a lot of things, where we don't have any time. We start doing so many things we just give our time away until we don't have any time for ourselves or any time to do the things that we want to do and every time you put it off and move it back. Oh I'll do it one day.
All year I'm going to get to it. I'm saying to you that one day you look around and there goes a year, there goes two years, there goes three years, so if there's something you want to do, do it now, do it right now, don't put it off. Start right now, where you are.
There never be a perfect ideal time. Whatever you have going for you right now, that's enough. Work on that idea, work on it, work on it, work on it. watch out with the relationships you have.
What kind of person are you becoming because of the relationships that you have right now?
Do those people contribute to you?
Do they help you grow and develop yourself?
What kind of person are you becoming?;
People, who have not accepted greatness for themselves, these people don't study. Ladies and gentlemen these people don't study. They don't have time for personal growth and development. They don't have time to work on their minds. No they don't have time for that, They are too busy for that.
To determine the height of your self approval it's important that you evaluate yourself because you know you quite well but it's almost impossible to do it totally by yourself.
You must get some caring feedback. Find somebody close enough to you that has observed you, have been around you, that you value their opinion. And ask them how do they see you?
How do they see you in terms of your self esteem?
And then compare what you have with what they say.
See there are things many times that people can see in us that we can't see because it's a blind spot.
When someone pays your compliment can you handle it well?
Can you handle compliments? Look that's a good barometer about your self-esteem.
Can you handle criticism well?
Can you give criticism?
What are your expectations?
What do you expect to get from life?
What do you expect to get from your business?
What do you expect to get from your relationships?
What is your ideal day?
What is it that you expect from this experience, this trip, this journey that you're involved in?
People that that have a strong sense of self approval, they have high expectations for themselves and from life and from others.
See a lot of people don't expect much from life, so they don't shoot for much. They're not preparing for much. A lot of people just showing up in life.
A lot of people just get up in the morning and they go through the day.
They go to the job just to pull a check down, watching the clock, coming here, so you want to be a different kind of person that you followed your life.
You want to get something out of this if you're going to do it, it's worth your time, your energy You've got some expectations from this, so examine your expectations versus your wishes.
Some people wish, they could do better, but some people expect, to do that.
Where are you on that?
And love yourself. Make caring for you the highest priority in your life. Take care of you.
Look out for what truly satisfies you.
We're not taught to love ourselves. we're not taught to look out for ourselves. We're not taught to take care of ourselves, to become sensitive to our wants, to our needs, our desires, so make a conscious effort.
Make you number one priority, your peace of mind.
Your health is more important than your family and any and everybody, because if you don't have peace of mind, if you don't have your health, you can't serve anybody.
Don't neglect yourself.
A lot of us and particularly ladies, have been groomed to be sacrificial lambs, putting their dreams on the back burner in deference to their children's dreams, or their husband's dreams or their family's dreams and forget about themselves.
They become resentful and angry and bitter. So start taking care of yourself looking out for you. Develop a health plan.
Your health is all you got.
So start taking care of you, eating nutritious meals, willing to exercise your body, taking care of this body. Loving yourself so do some good stuff for yourself on purpose.
Take some time out for you. You can't develop and manifest your greatness.
You can't be a high achiever, if you don't feel good. If you don't take care of yourself it takes the edge off you. Like it helps you to manage things rather than allowing them to manage you. It gives you more personal power to deal with stuff.
Take care of you now.
Here's something else I suggest for you. Become aware of what your needs are and develop compassion towards yourself, despite your human defence.
Develop compassion for yourself despite your human defects. You will never be perfect. Hello you will never be perfect. You're human. You've made a lot of mistakes, you've done a lot of dumb stupid things.
Guess what? You're not through yet. You got to learn to be gentle with yourself.
Make it alright what you don't know, mistakes that you make. It's okay. Handle it and learn from the experience. Decide that you are going to do whatever you have to become involved in.
Be upfront, be true to yourself. Are you getting what you need out of it? And be upfront with people and tell them what you need from them.
Don't assume that they know. Don't say, I thought you knew. No, tell people upfront here's what I need from this in order for this to work for me.
Be upfront with your stuff, tell them upfront, so they are not surprised later on, so your feelings aren't hurt later on .
See if they tell you upfront, they can't do it, now you know, you can keep on stepping, but tell people upfront, here's what I want for me to play this game with you.
If we're going to dance, that's what I get to get out of it.
See if you don't take care of your needs, guess what?
You will always have that nagging song in the back of your mind. And you say: but when do I get mine?
See, we're taught to be quiet and not speak up for ourselves, not to be selfish. If you don't take care of you, who do you think's going to take care of you?
Who's going to look out for you better than you will? No one's going to do that.
You got a business? No one's going to take care of your business better than you. Nobody, nobody.
Anything you want to do in life, you've got to take ownership of it, so hey I'm gonna make this happen.
Be willing to venture out and do something that you have fantasied about doing and you know you probably won't be good at it but do it anyhow.
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