many things can contribute to our not
approving our dreams I'm not feeling
good enough a lot of things can
contribute to that many of us never live
up to our potential or don't approve
ourselves because we never had anybody
to believe in us looking at some of the
things that keep us from approving
ourselves that we've all done some
things we don't feel good about things
that if we have to do those things over
again we would not do those things or we
would do things differently so part of
what we must do in order to begin to
move into your greatness you got to
remove a major energy block and that is
dealing with the issue of forgiveness
people that have hurt you someone who's
done you wrong make a list and things
that you have done that you you feel bad
about that you regret make a list there
may be a time when you weren't a good
father a good mother a good brother or
sister or you you were a bad shallow you
didn't do a good job or you lied or you
were dishonest so you stole no one knows
this with you or something you feel good
about so you now is a real dog in me to
do that something you just really regret
so we make a list of all those things
all of us have some of that might say
there's some good in the worst of us and
some bad in the best of us so none of us
escape now here's something I want you
to do I want you to become involved in
an active process to get some clutter
out of your life so if there's any area
in your life that you need to clean up
there's some people who's cluttering up
your life they serve no purpose
whatsoever they're just holding and
occupying the space that somebody useful
positive nurturing and contributing
could be holding that space you don't
even have time to look to see what else
is out there because you all have all of
these people surrounding you
that's not in enabling you to grow so
look at what is it I need to get out of
my life just start cleaning this stuff
out see whatever you have in your
environment is a reflection of your
consciousness so you got all that chaos
there that represents some disorganized
cluttered section of your mind so let's
get all this out of there all right work
to get that out clean that up anybody
that you feel very strongly about have
some negative feelings about let's look
at some good reasons to forgive them
number one you must try and see what has
happened or see things from that other
person's point of view let's look at it
from their point of view that's that's
one area that's number one then number
two holding a grudge hurts you it
doesn't hurt them so just for good
health and peace of mind let it go any
feeling of resentment or anger or hatred
is called to me the load of bitterness
within every thought that we entertain
produces a chemical in our brain that
impacts the body's immune system and
besides this person you are hating it
probably I'm not even aware of it don't
even know you're really hating if you've
turned up the steam gone from this life
to hate intensely and here you are
killing yourself making yourself
vulnerable to various types of illnesses
putting yourself in bad health and I say
that person is not worth your
sacrificing your health or one minute of
peace of mind one minute of anger Rob's
you of 60 seconds of happiness so decide
it doesn't matter let it go and
experience the dignity and the
magnanimous sense of character of being
big enough to move on and get on with
your life letting it go so you can grow
see with all of us have greatness within
us but when you don't come to grips with
your greatness and you don't work to
develop it if you're not seeking it out
if you're not finding where it is if
you're not trying to locate it if you're
not
experimenting with your life to try and
find out what spits for you I'm saying
that you're positioning yourself to be a
miserable person an unfulfilled person
how else do we do it
procrastination we just put things off
over and over and over again why because
we haven't accepted it
we don't feel deserving we don't feel
that we are good enough
so we sabotage ourselves by not ever
taking care of business we get real busy
doing a lot of things where we don't
have any time we start doing so many
things we just give our time away until
we don't have any time for ourselves or
any time to do the things that we want
to do and every time you put it off and
move it back oh I'll do it one day all
year I'm going to get to it I'm saying
to you that one day you look around and
there goes a year there goes two years
there goes three years so there's
something you want to do do it now do it
right now don't put it off start right
now where you are there never be a
perfect ideal time whatever you have
going for you right now that's enough
work on that idea work on it work on it
work on it watch out with the
relationships you have what kind of
person are you becoming because of the
relationships that you have right now do
those people contribute to you do they
help you grow and develop yourself what
kind of person are you becoming people
who have not accept greatness for
themselves these people don't study
ladies and gentlemen these people don't
study they don't have time for personal
growth and development then have time to
work on their minds know they'll have
time for that too busy for that to
determine the height of your self
approval it's important that you
evaluate yourself because you know you
quite well but it's almost impossible to
do it totally by yourself you must get
some caring feedback find somebody close
enough to you that has observed you of
it around you that you value their
opinion and ask them how do they see you
how do they reach you in terms of your
self esteem and then compare what you
have with what they say see there are
things many times that people can see in
us that we can't see because it's a
blind spot when someone pays your
compliment can you handle it well can
you handle compliments look that's a
good barometer about your self-esteem
can you handle criticism well can you
give criticism what are your
expectations what do you expect to get
from life what do you expect to get from
your business what do you expect to get
from your relationships what is your
ideal day what is it that you expect
from this experience this trip this
journey that you're involved in people
that that have a strong sense of self
approval they have high expectations for
themselves and from life and from others
see a lot of people don't expect much
from life so they don't shoot for much
they're not preparing for much a lot of
people just showing up in life a lot of
people just get up in the morning and
they go through the day they go to the
job just to pull a check down watching
the clock coming here so you want to be
a different kind of person that you
followed your life you want to get
something out of this if you're going to
do it it's worth your time your energy
you've got some expectations from this
so examine your expectations versus your
wishes some people wish they could do
better but some people expect to do that
where are you on that and love yourself
make caring for you the highest priority
in your life take care of you look out
for what truly satisfies you we're not
taught to love ourselves we're not
taught to look out for ourselves we're
not taught to take care of ourselves to
become sensitive to our wants to our
needs our desires so make a conscious
effort make you number one priority your
peace of mind your health is more
important than your family and any and
everybody because if you don't have
peace of mind if you don't have your
help you can't serve anybody don't
neglect yourself
a lot of us and particularly ladies have
been groomed to be sacrificial lambs
putting their dreams on the back burner
in deference to their children's dreams
or their husband's dreams or their
family's dreams and forget about
themselves then become resentful and
angry and bitter so start taking care of
yourself looking out for you develop a
health plan your health is all you got
so start taking care of you eating
nutritious meals willing to exercise
your body taking care of this body
loving yourself so do some good stuff
for yourself on purpose take some time
out for you you can't develop and
manifest your greatness you can't be a
high achiever if you don't feel good you
don't take care of yourself it takes the
edge off you like it helps you to manage
things rather than allowing them to
manage you gives you more personal power
to deal with stuff take care of you now
here's something else I suggest for you
become aware of what your needs are and
develop compassion towards yourself
despite your human defense develop
compassion for yourself despite your
human defects you will never be perfect
hello you will never be perfect you're
human
you've made a lot of mistakes you've
done a lot of dumb stupid things guess
what you're not through yet
got to learn to be gentle with yourself
make it alright what you don't know
mistakes that you make it's okay
handle it learn from the experience
decide that you are going to whatever
you become involved in to be upfront to
be true to yourself are you getting what
you need out of it and be upfront with
people and tell them what you need from
them don't assume that they know don't
say I thought you knew
now tell people upfront here's what I
need from this in order for this to work
for me be upfront with your stuff tell
them upfront so they are not surprised
later on so your feelings aren't hurt
later on see if they tell you upfront
they can't do it now you know you can
keep on stepping
but tell people upfront here's what I
want not of me to play this game with
you if we're going to dance that's what
I got to get out of it see if you don't
take care of your needs guess what you
will always have that nagging song in
the back of your mind say but when do I
get mine see we're taught to be quiet
and not speak up for ourselves
not to be selfish if you don't take care
of you what do you think's going to take
care of you who's going to look out for
you
better than you will no one's going to
do that you got a business no one's
going to take care of your business
better than you nobody nobody anything
you want to do in life you've got to
take ownership of it so hey I'm gonna
make this happen
be willing to venture out and do
something that you have fantasized about
doing and you know you probably won't be

good at it but do it anyhow

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