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Many things can contribute to us not approving our dreams, not feeling good enough. A lot of things can contribute to that. 

Many of us never live up to our potential or don't approve ourselves because we never had anybody to believe in us. 

Looking at some of the things that keep us from approving ourselves that we've all done some things we don't feel good about, things that, if we have to do those things over again, we would not do those things or we would do things differently. So part of what we must do in order to begin to move into your greatness, you got to remove a major energy block and that is dealing with the issue of forgiveness.

People that have hurt you, someone who's done you wrong. Make a list and things that you have done that you you feel bad about, that you regret. Make a list.
There may be a time when you weren't a good father, a good mother, a good brother or sister or you you were a bad shallow, you didn't do a good job or you lied or you were dishonest so you stole. No one knows this with you or something you feel good about so you know is a real dog in me to do that something you just really regret.

So we make a list of all those things. All of us have some of that might say: 

there's some good in the worst of us and some bad in the best of us so none of us escape

Now here's something I want you to do: I want you to become involved in an active process to get some clutter
out of your life. So if there's any area in your life that you need to clean up, there's some people who's cluttering up
your life, they serve no purpose whatsoever. They're just holding and occupying the space that somebody useful,
positive, nurturing and contributing could be holding that space.
You don't even have time to look to see what else is out there because you have all of these people surrounding you
that's not in enabling you to grow. So look at what is that I need to get out of my life. Just start cleaning this stuff
out. See whatever you have in your environment, is a reflection of your consciousness. So you got all that chaos
there, that represents some disorganized cluttered section of your mind. So let's get all this out of there, all right.

Work to get that out. Clean that up. Anybody that you feel very strongly about have some negative feelings about. Let's look at some good reasons to forgive them.

Number one, you must try and see what has happened or see things from that other person's point of view. Let's look at it, from their point of view. That's one area. 
Then number two, holding a grudge hurts you it, doesn't hurt them so just for good health and peace of mind let it go. Any feeling of resentment or anger or hatred is called to me the load of bitterness within. Every thought that we entertain produces a chemical in our brain that impacts the body's immune system and besides this person you are hating it, probably he's not even aware of it, don't even know you're really hating.
If you've turned up the steam gone from this life, to hate intensely and here you are killing yourself, making yourself vulnerable to various types of illnesses, putting yourself in bad health and I say that person is not worth your sacrificing your health or one minute of peace of mind, one minute of anger robs you off 60 seconds of happiness. 
So decide it doesn't matter, let it go and experience the dignity and the magnanimous sense of character of being
big enough to move on and get on with your life. Letting it go so you can grow.

See we all of us have greatness within us but when you don't come to grips with your greatness and you don't work to develop it, if you're not seeking it out, if you're not finding where it is, if you're not trying to locate it, if you're
not experimenting with your life to try and find out what spits for you, I'm saying that you're positioning yourself to be a miserable person, an unfulfilled person. 
How else do we do it?
Procrastination. We just put things off, over and over and over again. Why? Because we haven't accepted it. We don't feel deserving, we don't feel that we are good enough, so we sabotage ourselves by not ever taking care of business.
We get real busy doing a lot of things, where we don't have any time. We start doing so many things we just give our time away until we don't have any time for ourselves or any time to do the things that we want to do and every time you put it off and move it back. Oh I'll do it one day.
All year I'm going to get to it. I'm saying to you that one day you look around and there goes a year, there goes two years, there goes three years, so if there's something you want to do, do it now, do it right now, don't put it off. Start right now, where you are.
There never be a perfect ideal time. Whatever you have going for you right now, that's enough. Work on that idea, work on it, work on it, work on it. watch out with the relationships you have. What kind of person are you becoming because of the relationships that you have right now? Do those people contribute to you? Do they help you grow and develop yourself?  What kind of person are you becoming? 
People, who have not accepted greatness for themselves, these people don't study. Ladies and gentlemen these people don't study. They don't have time for personal growth and development then have time to
work on their minds know they'll have
time for that too busy for that to
determine the height of your self
approval it's important that you
evaluate yourself because you know you
quite well but it's almost impossible to
do it totally by yourself you must get
some caring feedback find somebody close
enough to you that has observed you of
it around you that you value their
opinion and ask them how do they see you
how do they reach you in terms of your
self esteem and then compare what you
have with what they say see there are
things many times that people can see in
us that we can't see because it's a
blind spot when someone pays your
compliment can you handle it well can
you handle compliments look that's a
good barometer about your self-esteem
can you handle criticism well can you
give criticism what are your
expectations what do you expect to get
from life what do you expect to get from
your business what do you expect to get
from your relationships what is your
ideal day what is it that you expect
from this experience this trip this
journey that you're involved in people
that that have a strong sense of self
approval they have high expectations for
themselves and from life and from others
see a lot of people don't expect much
from life so they don't shoot for much
they're not preparing for much a lot of
people just showing up in life a lot of
people just get up in the morning and
they go through the day they go to the
job just to pull a check down watching
the clock coming here so you want to be
a different kind of person that you
followed your life you want to get
something out of this if you're going to
do it it's worth your time your energy
you've got some expectations from this
so examine your expectations versus your
wishes some people wish they could do
better but some people expect to do that
where are you on that and love yourself
make caring for you the highest priority
in your life take care of you look out
for what truly satisfies you we're not
taught to love ourselves we're not
taught to look out for ourselves we're
not taught to take care of ourselves to
become sensitive to our wants to our
needs our desires so make a conscious
effort make you number one priority your
peace of mind your health is more
important than your family and any and
everybody because if you don't have
peace of mind if you don't have your
help you can't serve anybody don't
neglect yourself
a lot of us and particularly ladies have
been groomed to be sacrificial lambs
putting their dreams on the back burner
in deference to their children's dreams
or their husband's dreams or their
family's dreams and forget about
themselves then become resentful and
angry and bitter so start taking care of
yourself looking out for you develop a
health plan your health is all you got
so start taking care of you eating
nutritious meals willing to exercise
your body taking care of this body
loving yourself so do some good stuff
for yourself on purpose take some time
out for you you can't develop and
manifest your greatness you can't be a
high achiever if you don't feel good you
don't take care of yourself it takes the
edge off you like it helps you to manage
things rather than allowing them to
manage you gives you more personal power
to deal with stuff take care of you now
here's something else I suggest for you
become aware of what your needs are and
develop compassion towards yourself
despite your human defense develop
compassion for yourself despite your
human defects you will never be perfect
hello you will never be perfect you're
you've made a lot of mistakes you've
done a lot of dumb stupid things guess
what you're not through yet
got to learn to be gentle with yourself
make it alright what you don't know
mistakes that you make it's okay
handle it learn from the experience
decide that you are going to whatever
you become involved in to be upfront to
be true to yourself are you getting what
you need out of it and be upfront with
people and tell them what you need from
them don't assume that they know don't
say I thought you knew
now tell people upfront here's what I
need from this in order for this to work
for me be upfront with your stuff tell
them upfront so they are not surprised
later on so your feelings aren't hurt
later on see if they tell you upfront
they can't do it now you know you can
keep on stepping
but tell people upfront here's what I
want not of me to play this game with

you if we're going to dance that's what

I got to get out of it see if you don't

take care of your needs guess what you

will always have that nagging song in

the back of your mind say but when do I

get mine see we're taught to be quiet

and not speak up for ourselves

not to be selfish if you don't take care

of you what do you think's going to take

care of you who's going to look out for


better than you will no one's going to

do that you got a business no one's

going to take care of your business

better than you nobody nobody anything

you want to do in life you've got to

take ownership of it so hey I'm gonna

make this happen

be willing to venture out and do

something that you have fantasized about

doing and you know you probably won't be

good at it but do it anyhow

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